Out Raleigh 2017

 

I am pleased to announce that I will be returning to Out Raleigh May 6, 2017. Out Raleigh is a special event for me because this is where I first met D. Jackson Leigh, Yolanda Wallace, and Larkin Rose way back in 2013. It was quite an adventure for this introvert to travel six hours away from home to meet total strangers and promote my very first book Healing Hearts.  For any of you that have read Larkin Rose’s books, you can imagine I received quite a hazing, but only in the sweet “we’ve got you now” kind of way. These authors took me in as the newbie and made me feel like a part of a family, and they each hold a special place in my heart.

Each year changes, and sometimes our little group can’t always stay together, but we’ve been pleased to be joined by other authors such as VK Powel and Erin Dutton from time to time along the way. This year will be no different, and I can’t wait to start out the summer “Southern Crawl” with a visit to Out Raleigh with D. Jackson Leigh and Yolanda Wallace. After the much missed welcoming hugs and catching up, we will set up the Bold Strokes Books Tent and get down to real business, meeting and getting to know the wonderful readers who come by to see us.

Out Raleigh is different from the other events I attend each year. This isn’t your usual Pride event. Out Raleigh is about celebrating out LGBT families. I don’t think I have ever been to any other event that could rival the number of LGBT couples with baby strollers. It is such a breath of fresh air to see people come together to celebrate the unity of LGBT relationships and the commitments we have to one another.

With a little luck the weather will be bright, sunny, and warm. Unlike that first event in 2013 when I swear I got frost bite. But not to worry I will be prepared this time with my parka and a pair of shorts just in case. I will have copies of all my books for sale, including my new release Unbroken.

So, if you happen to be in the area, or like me feel like making the drive, come out to see me, D. Jackson Leigh, and Yolanda Wallace on May 6, 2017 at Out Raleigh. I look forward to seeing you there.

Just for fun, here is a photo of our little group from 2013. My how time has flown.

Unbroken, The Book That Almost Wasn’t.

 

So, I think I mentioned in my last post that writing Unbroken was a bit of a challenge and I actually took a year away from these characters to write Love’s Redemption. Here’s what I think happened. I wasn’t listening to my characters. In my work as a therapist I once heard a story of a young child who had been receiving counseling and wasn’t progressing. She changed therapist and made some pretty big disclosures. When asked why she hadn’t talked about these things before, she simply answered, “my therapist wasn’t ready”. I tell that story now to punctuate the problem I was having with this book, I wasn’t listening to my characters, I wasn’t ready for their story.

After the year away from Unbroken I was able to come back and really get into making this story what it was supposed to be. Because I took the time to let it unfold, I was able to invest in these characters the way they deserved to be known and understood. It was refreshing to me to have Jackie and Kayla lead me through their love story. I am so glad I took the time to do that.

What was different about writing Unbroken compared to my other books? First, I realized I wrote this book without a playlist. I hope I never try that again. When I have a list of songs that I feel takes me into a story, the repetitive listening keeps me grounded. I didn’t have that with Unbroken so I spent a lot of time chasing squirrels. Second, I didn’t have a quirky pet in this story. I love my quirky pets. I learned a lot about myself and what works and doesn’t work for my writing. When I get stuck now, I know it is because I am not listening to the story. Writing is easy, until it gets hard.

I hope you will take the time to read this story and get to know these two wonderful characters. They are funny and people I would like to know. I’m glad they didn’t give up on this writer. I know I’m glad I got to know their story. Just so you know, just because I don’t have a quirky pet in this book, doesn’t mean there aren’t some interesting animals. That seems to be one of my signatures. Ah the things I’m learning about myself along this wonderful journey or writing. I hope you enjoy the adventure too.

Unbroken is available on preorder at Bold Strokes Books and Amazon, and will be released in May 2017. I hope you’ll read Unbroken, and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. The book that almost wasn’t turned out to be pretty darn sweet.

Just for fun, here is one of my favorite quirky pets. This is Lily, my crazy beagle. Her full name is Lily Get Down Damn It, but we just call her Lily Bug most of the time. She’s my old girl and not doing so good these days. She’d appreciate some healing thoughts and love her way if you have some to spare.  Thanks everyone. Happy reading.

walking in the Smokies

Writing Love’s Redemption

Love’s Redemption is my third book. It is very special to me because it addresses hard issues that need more attention and discussion in order to reduce intimate violence. I was already deeply involved in writing Unbroken when the idea for Love’s Redemption came to me and the characters began demanding their story be told. I admit that although it was hard to set aside a year from Unbroken, both stories benefited from that decision. Love’s Redemption is a strong romance, while addressing the issue of sexual abuse.

Our social and legal history of dealing with sexual and domestic violence is nothing short of shameful. Victims have been blamed for their abuse, victimized by the courts, shamed and too often ignored by those sworn to protect them and those who claimed to love them. Unfortunately the gains we have made in the fight to end intimate violence are at risk of being washed away. The Trump administration has placed 25 grant programs under the Violence Against Women Act under threat of going to the chopping block. The loss of these grants also include programs working to prevent domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, stalking, and elder abuse. Please use your voice to stop this from happening.

For me the process of writing Love’s Redemption took a great deal of personal exploration and willingness to look at the skeletons in my own closet. It allowed me as a survivor and a therapist to act as the voice of millions of women and children who are the victims of intimate violence every day. These stories are often uncomfortable, but if we are willing to listen, we will come out better for knowing.

This story was inspired by a case I worked over twenty years ago when working as an advocate for the mentally ill. It was an unfortunate case that did not end well and had a profound impact on me for many reasons. In writing Love’s Redemption, I was glad to have these great characters, Rhea and Morgan shed light on these legal and social issues that further traumatize so many victims. But at the heart Love’s Redemption is a strong love story about resilience and willingness to stand up to injustice. Love’s Redemption is about many things, love, sexual abuse, injustice, stereotyping, and a moral and spiritual journey, all while dealing with a bad guy out to ruin everything.

I love this story and I love these characters. I hope you’ll give Love’s Redemption a read or a listen as it is also available on audiobook. I’m sure you’ll love it too.

Donna K Ford

Editing Time

Looks like its edit time for my upcoming release Unbroken. I’m excited to tie the bow on Unbroken so everyone can see what all the fuss is about, and why these two characters gave me such fits.
Here’s just a tiny peek at one of my favorite scenes between Kayla and Jackie. What a perfect way to meet.

Kayla jumped back as the rider landed at her feet with a sickening thud.

“Oomph.” The rider grunted.

Cheers erupted from the crowd as Kayla reached down to help the stranger up, hoping no bones were broken.
“Thanks,” the rider said grasping Kayla’s hand to pull herself up. “That’s going to hurt tomorrow.”
“It looks like it hurts now,” Kayla said shocked that the rider was a woman.
“Maybe a little bit, but don’t tell anyone I said that.” Out of nowhere she quickly leaned in and kissed Kayla on the mouth.
Cheers erupted again from a circle of men on the opposite side of the bull. “Excuse me,” the woman said as she withdrew her lips from Kayla’s. She flashed Kayla a devilish grin and rushed back to the bull.